A successful relationship requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Always with the same person, but deeper and deeper every time. Each time on a whole new level you together open in love and discover the truth of your beloved anew. There is no limit to the beauty of your beloved. If you think you've reached the end, stop generalizing...
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The most desired gift of love is not diamonds or roses or chocolate; it is focused attention. Love concentrates so intently on another person that you forget yourself at that moment. Attention says “I value you enough to give you my most precious asset-my time” whenever you give your time, you are making a sacrifice, and sacrifice is the essence of love.
You can give without loving but you can’t love without giving. Love means giving up, yielding my preferences, comfort, goals, security, money, energy or time for the benefit of someone else.
I know sometimes love comes with strings attached. It can be smothering, suffocating, controlling and needy. It can carry some all consuming fears if we have been hurt, betrayed, abandoned, rejected, or violated in the past. It can leave us rejecting the very idea of it's implications.
Relationship must have priority in your life above everything else because relationships are all what life is all about. Incidentally many underrate relationships when you hear them talking about finding time for our people, giving the impression that relationship are just a part of our lives along with many other tasks.
1 comment:
yes!!i couldnt agree more on your statement..Loving a person in our life requires a lot of sacrifice..we learn d best way 2 LOVE him,by making mistakes in our relationship..we fall in LOVE again n again with the same person..huhu..i experienced it..back again in my life,i really hope dat he is my TRUE LOVE!coz only WE know wats in OUR mind n heart..
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